Comment contest: Comment affairs #63; The best lesson my family taught me.
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Welcome to comment affairs contest #63
This is a free write and comment contest geared to promote engagement amongst steemians.
This week is another interesting time for engagement on this…
The best lesson my family taught me. Share one important lesson you learned from your parents, siblings, grandparents, or other family members. Tell us.
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- This is a free write and comment contest, you do not need to make a post, simply write whatever you want as a comment under this post. It can be as as long as you want but ensure it’s more than 150 words.
- Attach a picture (just one picture) to elaborate your point. Ensure the picture is sourced.
- Tag three of your friends to join the contest under your comment.
- You can choose to write a fresh comment or You can express yourself under someone’s comment if you want to contribute to what the person wrote about.
- This contest ends when the post pays out and the users with the best and quality comments will be rewarded.
- Entries to this contest are open to everyone
- Post your comment under the contest post, you do not need to write a different post, add a picture to your comment.
- Comment must be at least 150 words. Comments can be written in any language.
- Plagiarism, AI content, and abusive commemts are not allowed.
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Prizes
1st Place: 5 steem
2nd place: 3 steem
3rd place: 2 steem
The contest ends when the post pays out. Comment must be at least 150 words. You will be disqualified is it’s less.
Result for #62
1st place: @chiagoziee
2nd place: @fatima9
3rd place: @jannat12
Congratulations.
AI comments will be disqualified. Let’s drop our quality comments. Any language is allowed and the comments must be inline with the context of the contest.
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Aku sudah tidak memiliki kedua orang tua ku sejak tahun 2009 ayah ku meninggal dan 2010 ibu ku juga menyusul ayahku, sedih memang karena meninggalnya hanya berjarak 6 bulan saja namun ada hal penting yang diajarkan oleh orang tua dalam menjalani hidup supaya kita terhindar dari masalah "
Oleh karena itu pelihara lisanmu, karena lisan bisa menghancurkan diri mu sendiri, dalam istilah lain " mulut mu, harimau mu". Begitulah pesan dari keluarga ku, khususnya almarhum ibu ku tercinta ♥️.
Invite,@wakeupkitty, @solperez, @wirngo
Apakah saya belajar sesuatu dari orang tua saya? Kontak kami terlalu sedikit untuk itu. Ibu saya bekerja siang dan malam sebagai bidan dan memiliki praktik sendiri.
Dia bekerja agar ayah saya bisa kuliah menjadi dokter di usia yang lebih tua, dan kemudian ayah saya pergi. Jadi, jika memang ada pelajaran yang bisa dipetik, setidaknya itu adalah bahwa kamu tidak boleh membantu seorang pria untuk naik pangkat.
Selain itu, saya juga tipikal generasi X. Artinya, saya dibiarkan mengurus diri sendiri dan sudah melakukan segalanya sejak usia muda: mengurus rumah tangga, memasak, berbelanja, dan saya juga membantu di klinik. Suasana hati orang tua saya seringkali tidak terlalu baik, dan mereka sangat religius sehingga berbicara dan bersenang-senang—seperti menonton TV dan berenang—dilarang.
Saya juga belajar sejak usia yang cukup muda bahwa berbohong adalah hal yang mustahil bagi saya; hal itu membuat saya merasa sangat tidak nyaman. Seandainya saya melakukannya, saya pasti sudah menerima banyak sekali pukulan.
Kedua nenek saya, bagaimanapun, selalu berbicara apa adanya. Seperti kata pepatah: “Dokter yang lembut, luka yang busuk.”
Sejak usia 15 tahun, saya tidak lagi tinggal bersama orang tua saya. Saya bahkan mungkin tidak akan mengenali mereka lagi, dan bisa jadi keduanya sudah meninggal. Hal itu tidak terlalu saya pedulikan. Keluarga tidak bisa dipilih, sedangkan teman bisa. Saya rasa saya belajar lebih banyak dari nenek saya.
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Ternyata apa yang anda katakan itu benar sekali teman, tentang membantu laki-laki naik jabatan dan ujung-ujungnya tidak tahu diri pula. Di tempat kami juga ada yang seperti anda alami.
Aku juga membantu mantan suami ku mendapatkan kerjaan namun pada akhirnya kami berpisah dan memiliki satu orang anak, namun dia sama sekali tidak menafkahi anaknya, sekarang aku sudah menemukan kehidupan ku yang baru jadi aku sudah tidak perlu memikirkan tentang anak ku karena aku bisa membiayai anakku sendiri.
Walaupun kehidupan seperti ini tidak pernah di harapkan saya selalu berdoa untuk anda semoga saja menemukan kebahagiaan yang lebih baik lagi bersama anak-anak anda.
Creo que este pensamiento podría estar a la par de las ideas de Nietzsche: "Así que, si hay alguna lección que aprender, es que no se debe ayudar a un hombre a ascender".
Jeje. Yo diría que si tu padre era "tan hombre", entonces debió defenderse solo, y no apoyarse en tu madre.
Comprendo que te hayas desapegado de tu casa paterna, ya que a veces vivir mucho tiempo con ellos puede hacernos la vida despreciable.
Un abrazo.
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Terimakasih temanku atas dukungannya 🙏🌹
Excelente lección la que te dio tu madre, la cual comparto plenamente: "Debemos cuidar lo que sale de nuestra boca" y también seleccionar muy bien lo "que entra a nuestros oídos", porque estos dos órganos: Oído y boca pueden hacernos añicos la vida, en el momento menos imaginado.
La foto es preciosa.
Benar sekali temanku, bahkan orang yang paling besar peluang menghancurkan kita adalah orang terdekat dengan kita, benar kan?
Aku hanya bisa berdoa semoga kejadian seperti ini terhindar dari kita.
Ini foto anak dari tetangga ku, aku mana punya anak perempuan 🤭
Every day we learn lessons from life, but some are harder or more profound than others—lessons that teach us not to make those same mistakes, but rather how to prevent them from happening.
My lesson in life and resilience came from my mom. My dad left home when I was 6 and my little brother was 4. It was unexpected because there had never been any conflicts between them as a couple; rather, my dad blamed my mom—let’s say to free himself from the situation—when he was actually the one at fault.
Of course, it affected my mom, but she didn’t let herself fall apart or be defeated, because she always said that she had us—we were her greatest source of strength to keep going. Seventeen years have passed since then, and thanks to my MOM, we’ve never lacked anything essential or basic—we’ve never gone without.
Above all, love and a good education—I was in first grade back then, and next year I’ll graduate as a nurse. My dad was never there for us during all that time, though my mom never denied him the right to come see us; the fact that he didn’t want to was a different matter.
Man, I really admire my mom, and my brother too—the three of us have been warriors in the same battle.
I’d like to tag @neferet24 @genomil @tahispadron
Is it not common that we learn lessons since we are children, maybe the reason is that since our young age we will be taught what is good and what is bad. I think one of the important thing that my parents and grandparents taught me is not to be late. My father himself always prepared himself for anything about 2 hours before and even if he needed to arrive somewhere he usually came minimum 30 min or around 1 hour before. I remember I always complained about that but slowly by now I learnt that. I remember how when I was in early school age, I was of course, waken up in time and prepared myself for school, as always it was about one hour before. I had my breakfast and food and got dressed then I was while waiting I thought that I will probably sleep 20 minutes before and then will go. You can imagine what happened. I woke up it was already 8AM it is time when the school started. I was absolutely frightened and needed to run to school, of course, I was late. That episode was a lesson for me, since then I always make sure that I am ready early and I prefer to be in the place of my appointment in time and wait there.
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