I wonder how life can be so unfair

in Steem For Lifestyle • 14 hours ago
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I guess you my title drew your attention. But that's the reality. Life sometimes can be very unfair and unfolds in a manner we never expected.

Sometimes we paint a picture of how we want our life to go even planned it out but shock of the opposite befall us. Other times you meet a person who never painted such pictures or even planned for it living that very life without stress and you are like what?

Some other times you are in a situation where you love someone but they don't love you or the worse is when you are now been loved by the very person you don't love. Hahaha funny life Or there is certain kind of expectation you have about love and is not met. You definitely feel frozen!

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What of a case where you have loved recklessly and you were taken for granted? Or where you kept making the wrong choice of who to love and they keep breaking your heart over and over again? Somebody will say you are fried! Well it's not funny.

There are many unfair situations life presents it's self with. Okay a case where they say it's having a skill and working hard at it that makes people wealthy and you have plunge your self into it a skill and has been working hard yet nothing to show infact you still struggle to pay your bills, wealth is not even close to what you are experiencing.

Another scenario is having to live all the days of your life regretting about a mistake made or done when you knew you had the opportunity to have stopped when you needed to. Or a case where you saw other people getting involved in a deal and cashing out, it got to your turn , you got involved and you got stuck.

What you ever have to loose your self to pursue a height in life only to get there to find out it never existed? That's what Solomon called vanity.

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Have you come across the phrase you can't eat your cake and have it? Guess what? There are many who have eaten their cake and still has it, the table only turns when it gets to your turn, that what you are thinking right?

What about living the kind of life you kicked against, talked against and resisted? Now you feel ashamed and unworthy. Life is truly unfair.

Who can actually explain this life by understanding why these things happens? Who will bail us from this mysterious knowledge?

Anyways just drink water first and keep minding your business with positivity, they say there is light at the end of the tunnel, get there first and if you are already there and you didn't see the light, I actually do not know what to say to you but to keep pushing to be better. There is definitely a superior being incharge of all that happens to us.

Now let me ask you a question, where you are currently in life, is that how you pictured your life would be? Ponder !

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 13 hours ago 

Such a deep reflection on life. Sometimes life takes us in directions where we never imagine our life but I strongly believe every experience teaches us something new and valueable.We may not understand why things happen or why our efforts don't make the results we want, but that doesn't mean we should stop trying. We should keep faith, stay positive, and appreciate the little blessings we have in our life. Life may not always go according to our plans which we make but we can still make the best of the journey.

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It depends... ;-)) As a child, I had very different ideas about my life; later, I had different ones; then, yet others; and today, new ones. They’ve always fit my current life. What I mean is: these ideas and dreams adapt. Otherwise, you’d spend your whole life chasing unattainable goals...

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Lo que aprendí es que la parte de "amamos a quien no nos ama, o nos ama quien no amamos" es la que más duele, sobre todo cuando una ya viene de haber amado de más y sin medida. ¿Vos creés que esas injusticias son solo azar, o hay algo que sí podemos elegir en medio de ellas?