F.R.I.E.N.D.S

I used to say that I have no friends, I don't know how to make friends. Most people have childhood friends who are known as their family by the time. But I don’t have any. My reason is very solid that all my schoolmates were good but at that time I didn’t have any phone to contact them or stay in touch with them. Well, I miss them. When I had a phone to chat, I didn’t have people to chat with. Initially, I used to think in my college that I wouldn’t make any friends here. My attitude would be like Cillan Murphy from Peaky Blinders. Yes, I don’t make friends there but with the attitude of bubbles from the Powerpuff Girls. I have only two friends from college who are still with me. And the three of us are good together.

About my personality based on friendship, I am friendly. I can't have a straight face or be rude. Whenever you talk to me, I will talk to you in my limits and kind words. I have noticed that when you are sweet, people think you are easy. But, I am not. I sometimes say that I'm friendly but not everyone's friend. hehe
In my possibility, friends should be comfortable with each other, happy with each other and real. I don't like possessiveness in friends. Why? There were some people in my life who made me think that I was their wife even though they were girls. I don't like how people control their people. No big deal!!!

My interest in such people is lost immediately. Things are straightforward. I don't like to be under anyone. I have my life, and so do my people.

But because of being unlucky in friendships in the past, now I have such good souls around me in my university. I don't know how they became my friends, but I consider myself lucky now. They are so cute, and one of them is @zainabb. She is sweet, kind, and innocent. I am happy to have her in my life.

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Do you have friends like that? Or a childhood friend?

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You were absolutely right when you said that a friend is a friend, not a wife that we become bound to.
I believe friendship should be something where we feel relaxed, calm, and free where we can be ourselves without feeling like we have to explain ourselves or be accountable for every little thing. That’s the kind of friendship I value.
And you are honestly such a good and beautiful friend so kind-hearted and self-aware, and always understanding. I’m truly grateful to Allah for blessing me with a friend like you❤️

May this friendship never ends! 🌺