I have three children. Every point you make is dead on. And very wise. I think you are absolutely entitled to make your own choice. And to me, it sounds like you are making the right one for you right now. And I'm proud of you, for what that matters.😀 Don't let people beat you up over it, and definitely don't let it get to you. I hope your week turns out great for you, and I wish you the best of luck with this situation.